With the arrival of summer, many people hope to feel calmer. However, slowing down does not always mean that stress or anxiety will disappear. Precisely because of this, this can be a good time to better understand what we feel and learn to take care of ourselves.

Sometimes we use the words “stress” and “anxiety” as if they meant exactly the same thing. We say “I am stressed” before a competition, exam, or meeting a new person, “it gives me anxiety” when we have many things pending, or “I'm going to have fit” when we feel we are losing control.

Although these feelings may seem similar, they do not always mean the same thing. Understanding the difference between stress, anxiety, and a panic attack can help us better identify what is happening to us, name it, and seek the right help when necessary.

It is not about judging what we feel or thinking we are exaggerating. Our body and mind give us signals. Learning to listen to them is an important way of taking care of ourselves.

Table of Contents

• Why do we mistake stress for anxiety?

• Stress: when there is a specific challenge

• Anxiety: when the worry stays

• Panic attacks: when the alarm goes off

• How to support yourself in those moments

• Asking for help is also self-care

Why do we mistake stress for anxiety?

It is normal to confuse stress and anxiety because both can be felt in the body in similar ways: nervousness, agitation, rapid breathing, palpitations, restlessness, or a sense of threat.

The main difference lies in why they appear and how long they last.

Stress is usually related to a concrete situation: an exam, a presentation, a competition, an important meeting, or a project with a deadline. When that situation ends, the body usually returns gradually to a state of calm.

Anxiety, on the other hand, can appear even when there is no immediate danger. It is often related to thoughts, worries, or internal insecurities. It can last longer and stay with us even after the situation that worried us has passed.

Stress: when there is a specific challenge

Stress is not always negative. In small doses, it can help us react, focus, and prepare for an important situation.

For example, if you have to hand in a project and you are worried about not having enough time to finish it, you are probably feeling stress. There is a clear cause: the pending work and the deadline. Your body is activated because it understands it has to respond to a demand.

The problem arises when this state of tension lasts for too long or when we feel we do not have enough resources to cope with what is happening. That is when stress can start to affect us more deeply.

Some signs of stress can be:

• Feeling pressure because of a specific task.

• Having difficulty relaxing until that situation has passed.

• Noticing muscle tension, fatigue, or irritability.

• Thinking constantly about what you have to do.

Recognising stress allows us to ask ourselves: “What specific situation is overwhelming me?” Sometimes, organising tasks, asking for help, or breaking a big problem down into small steps can reduce that feeling.

Anxiety: when the worry stays

Anxiety is usually more related to repetitive thoughts and worries that do not go away easily.

For example, if you are constantly worried about what others think of you, even though no one has said anything negative to you, that is closer to anxiety. There is not necessarily a clear external threat, but your mind interprets that something bad could happen.

Anxiety can make us anticipate problems, imagine negative scenarios, or doubt ourselves. Sometimes it appears with questions like:

• “What if I do it wrong?”

• “What if they laugh at me?”

• “What if I'm not good enough?”

• “What if something goes wrong?”

Anxiety does not mean you are weak or that you are failing. It means your alert system is working intensely and, sometimes, for too long.

When this happens, it can help to talk to someone you trust, write down what you feel, breathe calmly, or seek professional support if anxiety affects your daily life.

Panic attacks: when the alarm goes off

A panic attack can feel very intense and be very frightening for those experiencing it. It is as if the body activates a danger alarm, even if there is no real threat at that moment.

During a panic attack, physical and psychological symptoms can appear, such as palpitations, a racing heart, trembling, shortness of breath, chest pain, fear of losing control, or even fear of dying.

For example, before an important exam, a person might feel so overwhelmed that they freeze, cry, become paralyzed, and feel they are losing control. This situation could resemble a panic attack, especially if it appears intensely and suddenly.

Something important to remember is that, although the feeling is very unpleasant, a panic attack usually reaches its peak intensity within a few minutes and then gradually subsides.

How to support yourself in those moments

When you notice that your body is getting too activated, try not to fight what you feel. Instead of telling yourself “I shouldn't feel this,” you can try kinder phrases like:

• “This is uncomfortable, but it will pass.”

• “My body is activated, I am not in danger.”

• “I can breathe slowly, step by step.”

• “I do not have to solve everything right now.”

A simple strategy can be to take slow, deep breaths several times. It can also help to move to a quieter place, reduce stimulation, drink water, or notify someone you trust.

If you notice that certain substances like caffeine, alcohol, or nicotine increase your feeling of nervousness, it can be useful to reduce or avoid them, especially in times of high anxiety.

Asking for help is also self-care

Feeling stress, anxiety, or even experiencing a panic attack does not mean you are alone or that there is something “wrong” with you. They are signals that your body and mind need attention.

The important thing is to learn to differentiate what is happening. Stress usually appears when facing a specific challenge. Anxiety can persist due to internal worries. A panic attack is a brief but very intense reaction of the body's alarm system.

If these feelings appear frequently, prevent you from living a normal life, or generate a lot of fear, seeking professional help can make a huge difference. Talking to a doctor, psychologist, school counselor, or trusted adult is not an exaggeration: it is a way to take care of yourself.

We do not always need to have perfect control over what we feel. Sometimes, the first step to feeling better is simply being able to say: “This is what is happening to me, and I do not have to go through it alone.”

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